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Julia Abolina with a client in session

Working with relationships

Relationships are a huge part of our lives. Good relationships are never a result of luck, but a result of the co-creative work of every relational participant. It’s not easy to find common ground, trust, and hear each other, even if love is there.
Who is the one to blame if the relationship feels uncomfortable? What should we do with unrealistic expectations, bitterness, or resentment? Where is the demarcation between my responsibilities and those of my partner? How can we change unhealthy patterns in our relationship? How can we overcome a crisis? How can we be more (or less!) assertive in relationships? What should we expect from romantic relationships? How to shape a relationship with grown up children or with elderly parents?

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I can help you with these relationship issues and more using the relational design principles.
Julia Abolina in psychotherapy session with a client

Relational Design

You have the power
to design your relationship.

The relational design is an 8-step process developed in collaboration with my colleague Irina Aron.

This therapeutic method will equip you with the tools to co-create the relationships you want to be in.

You can work individually, participate in a Relationships Workshop or join the weekly online Relationship Design Circle.

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Relationship design circle

Changing ourselves changes our relationships.

At the weekly Relationships Design Circle, you will meet people who are on the same path as you.

Your Circle is a small, intimate group of six people, meeting for two hours weekly.
Together with others and through structured sessions you'll build a community of trust with your group. The best way to learn about relationships is through relationships and your community will support your journey through shared experience.

You will become part of a community of people who want to practice relationships consciously.

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Relationship workshops

We are in a relationship with everything around us.

In the Relationship Workshops, you will have a chance to investigate and change your individual patterns around your relationship issues while working with others.

You can come to the sessions on your own, with a partner or with a friend.